Have you ever tried hard to get something in your life to work because you were just so very passionate about it?
Like maybe a personal relationship? Or maybe you’ve been attempting to make something work with a business idea and it always seems to go south no matter how many different types of resources you have tried.
Here’s another example, maybe you’ve been in a certain environment and it always ends up with you in bad positions.
To make this straight and to the point, that’s the universe trying to tell you something.
A person could be really passionate about something and exert a large amount of effort into it or spend a lot of time towards it and the return is never beneficial in any tangible, physical way. This is because it simply isn’t supposed to be.
But that doesn’t mean you get absolutely nothing from it…what you get is the lesson behind it. More on that later.
In terms of a relationship, if you have been with someone for a very long time “off and on” for years, having the same differences, feeling the same way emotionally all the time, it’s likely that you need to step back and re-evaluate this connection. What are you gaining from this person that aligns with what you desire for your future? If the two of you are not on the same page, and it has been that way for years, when are you going to identify what you need to do and make a conscious effort to do it…and stick with that decision?
If you have been trying to get a certain business venture off the ground and you simply are not seeing positive results, when will you realize that maybe you need to step back and start over from a different perspective. Not to say you give up on a dream, but you have to be realistic about what you have been investing your time, energy and finances into.
As you get older and a little wiser, are you seeing how certain situations that you continue to put yourself in with certain people are always putting you in compromising positions? THEY seem to not react much to the stress of the situation but you do. This could be the time to separate yourself from them and get a reality check.
All of these situations, will give us signs that often we ignore because our conscious mind has become accustomed to the familiarity of them, but deep down there is an energy that you feel that knows it’s not right for you.
In between these situations, if you could take a moment to pay attention to the bigger picture, your answers won’t be too far behind.
Relationships that aren’t going anywhere, let them go. You deserve to be spending your precious years of life happy and filled with genuine love. Not drained mentally and emotionally, filled with confusion.
The universe will show you things about yourself and other people in order to show you what you need to see. As mentioned, there will be lessons that you will gain along the way, and THIS is how the universe is trying to speak to you.
Painful experiences that we have to deal with will reveal a lot to you. Heartbreak will to seem to tear you down, but once you have truly healed and reached a certain level of growth and self love and care, you will be prepared for the love that was truly meant for you and accept nothing less than.
There could be certain things that you as a sole individual have to achieve or let go of before you are ready to manifest bigger things in your life. You may recognize this by constantly being let down or denied of something.
Paying attention to yourself in certain environments, doing certain things could be another way to identify if the universe is trying to tell you something. You simply have to pay attention to how you feel .Do you feel happy, do you feel sad? When you feel the happiest what are you doing? When you feel the most stressed out, what are you doing?
Is there something that you keep getting intense feelings about? Often we have intuitions about things that we just brush off as worry or insecurity but a lot of times we should trust that intuition.
There are so many ways that the universe could be trying to guide us in the right direction but we are just too busy to see, or too caught up in emotions to realize what is right in front of our very own eyes.
Getting the most out or your life will definitely take you on different roller coasters but it should also be giving you a certain sense of satisfaction overall. If this is not happening for you then you may begin to see the signs of this in the people around you, the spaces you occupy, and the way you feel.
Pay attention to these things and act on them. The universe wants what’s best for you.
Until Next Time,
Peace & Blessings