As a single woman( for some)thinking about and dreaming about the love of a lifetime to come and sweep you off your feet may be a constant thought.
Love is a beautiful thing, but before you can be happy in love with someone else, make sure you have taken a season of your life ( or several in some cases) to be happy in your singleness.
So if you find that you are a person that eagerly awaits new love, read on to understand why manifesting your happiness in your singleness is just as important as manifesting that new man (or woman) to come into your life.
Here’s the deal, so yes people do make us happy. In relationships, the goal is to be with a person that can provide you with love, comfort, happiness, trust and that list can go on and on, but if you aren’t seeking to make your internal happiness self inflicted, there could be cause for a lot of potential hurt and emotional damage should something go wrong.
Manifesting happiness in your single seasons is a form of on going self care that will have benefits to you in and out of a relationship. Being truly happy alone means that you are not dependent upon another individual to provide you with things you should provide yourself first.
While we hope to find love, everyone’s journey looks different so you never know when your single life will come to an end, but in the mean time are you just going to be miserable and unhappy while you’re alone?
Are you going to sit every single day wishing that someone was there with you so you don’t feel lonely? Hopefully your answer to that is a HARD no.
During your single season you should practice manifesting happiness within yourself on many levels and anything that seems to be missing, use your alone time to go out and obtain it.
One thing is for certain, we never know what the future holds for us so being content and happy with ourselves is something we should consider a priority just as we would our peace of mind.
If you haven’t checked out Day 2 of our 31 Days of Manifestations, I discussed the importance of manifesting your peace of mind….You can find it here Day 2 / Manifesting Your Peace of Mind
Manifesting your happiness daily will remind you of how precious your own life is. It will cause you to pay attention to the things in your life that you may take for granted.
It will cause you to see the beauty in life and how much work you have done on yourself to be who you are.
Manifesting overall happiness in your life could mean working on several different aspects of your life. You should be seeking your life purpose, your independence, and your highest level of self confidence just to name a few.
So to start with your daily affirmations here are two you can use to manifest the happiness you deserve…
I accept that happiness is my true nature and I live in it daily.
I am willing to be happy now in the present.
How you start your day has a huge impact on the daily happiness you seek to manifest.
Waking up in pure gratitude and expectations of being filled with joy should always lead your day.
Pay attention to the things in your life that disrupt your happiness and make the choice that you will not let it steal your joy…no matter what.
Never look at other relationships and couples with envy of what they have for one very significant reason…
You never know what a person is going through behind closed doors. In a generation led by social media, remember that people in relationships are more prone to post the good stuff and leave out the bad.
To manifest your happiness could look like you creating a routine self check in.
Take a moment to write down all of the things that are currently happening in your life that are making you happy. If your list looks a little short or you struggle to think of very many to begin with, then going on a soul search for happiness necessary.
Everyday life occurrences bring happiness, but it is also experiences that do this as well.
Think about what things you have experienced in your life that you could one day talk about with a potential partner. What experiences truly made you feel joyful?
You also have to think about what situations in your life may need to be changed.
For instance, if work makes you unhappy as an example, and it’s always made you feel miserable, you could be liable to seek out someone who is financially stable in and abundance and find yourself among the wrong individuals because you’re trying to settle for something that isn’t right for you just to fill a void within yourself.
So the remedy for that is to find yourself something else that you love to do and begging the journey to doing something different and changing the narrative.
Overall, it’s going to take you to be the genuine reinforcement you need for happiness so don’t ever count yourself out.
You are the whole cake, everything else is just the icing, so in other words know that you are already good by yourself!
Until next time my lovelies,
Peace & Blessings