Men Matter Too: Redefining Masculinity Through Self-Care

In a world that often demands men to be tough, silent, and endlessly strong, there’s an urgent need to pause and remind ourselves of one simple truth: men matter too. Coming from myself, a woman who has intentionally been the voice and advocate for all things women, women’s empowerment and women’s self care, I thought…

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Thoughts of a Blog Queen: Table for One, Please—Why I’m Romancing Myself Like a Netflix Rom-Com

Let me paint you a picture: It’s Friday night. My phone isn’t buzzing, my DMs are dry, and I’m wearing an outfit that screams “I tried… but also, I slay.” The restaurant host asks, “Will someone be joining you?” and I smile sweetly and say, “Nope—it’s just me and my sparkling personality.” Welcome to the…

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Thoughts of a Blog Queen: Embrace the End of a Season /PT 5 of 5

Just like with most things in life, there comes an ending. The ending will look different for everyone. Some will be unexpected, some will be scary, but some endings will also be beautiful and necessary. When a season of your life ends this is a pivotal time in your world. It means that you are…

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October 11th: The Actual Black Girl Day Off Your Solo Season Needed/ Part 4 of 5

Yes. Black Girl Day Off is a thing. Like an actual unrecognized day in the United States that dates back to 2020 post pandemic where sources said it was founded and observed in certain communities for Black women. Although I don’t know if the momentum on it has quite picked up the way I think…

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Thoughts of a Blog Queen: The end of an unsuccessful E.R.A. Part 3 of 5

Letting go of Ego, Resentment & Attitude So lately it’s been all about the “era”. The “soft girl era”, the “in my bag” era, or whatever type of lifestyle you are trying to manifest…it’s that era. So as we continue in this solo season, I thought it would be very relevant to us if I…

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Thoughts of a Blog Queen: The Signs You May Need to Go Into a Season of Solitude/ Part 2 of 5

What is a solo season? Let’s start by defining what your “solo season” is and what it looks like. Your solo season is an intentional period of time where you focus primarily, consistently and unapologetically on yourself. It’s the due diligence and inventory one must take on themselves in order to fully identify what areas…

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