Men Matter Too: Give Him His Flowers—While He Can Still Smell Them

We talk a lot about giving women their flowers — celebrating us while we’re here, hyping us up for all that we are and all that we do. And yes, sis, keep that same energy for yourself. But today, I want to flip it. Let’s talk about the men. Because men matter too. Now, before…

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Men Matter Too: They Celebrate Your Hustle, I Celebrate Your Healing

A Love Letter To The Black Man That Deserves More Than Just Applause…He Deserves Peace. Dear Black Man, I want to take a moment to speak directly to you — not just as a partner, sister, daughter, or friend — but as a woman who sees you. As Father’s Day approaches, I don’t want to…

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Thoughts of a Blog Queen: What’s It Like To Date You?

A Journey into Self-Discovery and How Others May Be Experiencing You Have you ever stopped to ask yourself: What’s it like to date me? Not in a self-critical, overthinking spiral—but in a curious, empowered, reflective way. Too often, we focus on who the other person is—their red flags, their communication style, their emotional availability. But…

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Thoughts of a Blog Queen: Table for One, Please—Why I’m Romancing Myself Like a Netflix Rom-Com

Let me paint you a picture: It’s Friday night. My phone isn’t buzzing, my DMs are dry, and I’m wearing an outfit that screams “I tried… but also, I slay.” The restaurant host asks, “Will someone be joining you?” and I smile sweetly and say, “Nope—it’s just me and my sparkling personality.” Welcome to the…

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Thoughts of a Blog Queen: Embrace the End of a Season /PT 5 of 5

Just like with most things in life, there comes an ending. The ending will look different for everyone. Some will be unexpected, some will be scary, but some endings will also be beautiful and necessary. When a season of your life ends this is a pivotal time in your world. It means that you are…

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Thoughts of a Blog Queen: The end of an unsuccessful E.R.A. Part 3 of 5

Letting go of Ego, Resentment & Attitude So lately it’s been all about the “era”. The “soft girl era”, the “in my bag” era, or whatever type of lifestyle you are trying to manifest…it’s that era. So as we continue in this solo season, I thought it would be very relevant to us if I…

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