The Only Constant is Change (And Your Favorite Blog Queen Knows It) SO I’M MOVING!!!!

After years of pouring my thoughts into this blog column, it’s time to level up. I’ve officially moved into my new digital home—the brand-new Thoughts of a Blog Queen website! 🎉

This isn’t just a move—it’s a glow-up. On the new site, you’ll get:
• Fresh posts every week
• Juicy conversations on self-care, lifestyle, and growth
• Exclusive content for subscribers

Basically, all the Blog Queen energy you love… but bigger, better, and bolder.

👉 Don’t miss out—subscribe to the new site today and join me in this next chapter.

Same queen, new throne. Let’s go!

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Thoughts of a Blog Queen: “Rise, Shine, & Mind Your Damn Business” (a.k.a. Your Self-Care)

Let’s be honest: mornings can feel like a setup. The alarm clock is rude, your group chat is already a mess, and your to-do list is giving side-eye. But what if your mornings weren’t chaos? What if they were calm, sacred, and just a little bougie?

In this post, I’m breaking down how a morning routine isn’t about perfection—it’s about preserving your peace. Plus, I’m putting you on to my top 3 ride-or-die products that kickstart my day: my green goddess chlorophyll shot, a glow-boosting vitamin C serum, and my non-negotiable self-care journal tracker.

Because if I’m not moisturized, detoxed, and mindfully journaling… I’m not available. 😌✨

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Men Matter Too: They Celebrate Your Hustle, I Celebrate Your Healing

A Love Letter To The Black Man That Deserves More Than Just Applause…He Deserves Peace. Dear Black Man, I want to take a moment to speak directly to you — not just as a partner, sister, daughter, or friend — but as a woman who sees you. As Father’s Day approaches, I don’t want to…

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Thoughts of a Blog Queen: What’s It Like To Date You?

A Journey into Self-Discovery and How Others May Be Experiencing You Have you ever stopped to ask yourself: What’s it like to date me? Not in a self-critical, overthinking spiral—but in a curious, empowered, reflective way. Too often, we focus on who the other person is—their red flags, their communication style, their emotional availability. But…

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Men Matter Too: Redefining Masculinity Through Self-Care

In a world that often demands men to be tough, silent, and endlessly strong, there’s an urgent need to pause and remind ourselves of one simple truth: men matter too. Coming from myself, a woman who has intentionally been the voice and advocate for all things women, women’s empowerment and women’s self care, I thought…

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Thoughts of a Blog Queen: Table for One, Please—Why I’m Romancing Myself Like a Netflix Rom-Com

Let me paint you a picture: It’s Friday night. My phone isn’t buzzing, my DMs are dry, and I’m wearing an outfit that screams “I tried… but also, I slay.” The restaurant host asks, “Will someone be joining you?” and I smile sweetly and say, “Nope—it’s just me and my sparkling personality.” Welcome to the…

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